Wednesday, 13 February 2019

checklist barang ke hospital (updated) 2019

Dah 3 kali pengalaman bersalin ni......

Alang-alang tu nak la buat review what’s in my hospital bag kan.. acah-acah blogger famous haha!

Pengalaman dah bersalin hospital kerajaan dan swasta buat I lagi alert la pasni baby no 4 tak payah bawak banyak barang dah. Tapi baby no 4 bukan dalam masa terdekat la.. (pengsan)

Masa Noah bersalin dekat Hosp Manjung
Lepas tu Amna bersalin dekat Pantai Hosp Manjung
yang ketiga Ayleen dekat Klinik Bersalin Yasmin

Semua pun selesa, layanan je berbeza-beza. Hosp gov pun dah best apa.. layanan baik dari nurse and doc. Tapi antara 3 tempat tu.. in terms of keselesaan I suka klinik Yasmin hehe. Best. Doktor yasmin mmg terbaik la I tell you. Tenang je masa beranak.

Okay, ni bag I prepare masa nak pergi bersalin Ayleen. Masa amna gambar taktau pi mana.






Lepas dah 3 kali bersalin ni. Dah merasa pulak swasta dan kerajaan.
Ni list mudah untuk first time mother yang runsing nak bawa apa la ke hospital.
Okay, ni yang basic untuk mak2 yang tak fussy nak pakai baju seragam hospital tu 😆
 Nanti kita cerita detail lagi. Jap nak bagi list dulu.


• BEG MAMA

1) Tuala
2) Toiletries ( berus, toothpaste, benda2 basic korang lah. Tapi kalau swasta selalunya diorang sediakan)
3) Baju sepasang cecantik pakai masa keluar hospital
4) Power Bank
5) Pad Kotex (overnight)
6) Disposable panties
7) Tudung
8) Stokin 2-3 pasang
9) Basic makeup ( yg ni optional sebab sis mmg kuat melaram tak nak muka nampak jeramgkung sangat masa keluar hospital 🤣)


Pasal baju tu nak tahu kenapa sepasang? Sebabnya dah 3 kali bersalin eventho swasta boleh pakai baju sendiri tapi sis malas nak pakai baju sendiri haha!
Masa tu tengah heavy kan darah nifas keluar and selalunya memang akan bocor lencun. Sis ni sejenis pemalas dan tak suka susahkan suami nak tolong basuhkan. So pakai je kain baju hospital biar diorang la basuh 😆🤣 kah!
Sampai nurse pelik patient ni duduk hospital mahal2 tapi tak nak pakai baju sendiri cantik2 haha


• BEG BABY

Okay pasal beg baby pun secara jujur masa dekat hospital semua pakai baju and bedung hospital. Tak kira la kerajaan dan swasta. Masa nak balik je baru pakai baju baby yang di bawa 😅
Tapi pada yang tak suka anak dia pakai baju hospital.. bawa la lebih. Korang ni memang rajin. I salute!

1) Tuala baby
2) Satu set baju baby keluar hospital ( termasuk topi, mitten & booties)
3) Bedung baby
4) Baby wipes
5) Minyak telon
6) Diaper new born ( Bawak la 5-6 pieces, just in case)

Basically tu jela sis bawak. Pakai barang sendiri masa nak check out je 😅
Kalau korang jenis risau semua kena ada then this entry not for you lah hehe
So.. okaylah. Bye

Tuesday, 12 February 2019

Tully



I was having a total meltdown the other day because i was so overwhelmed with EVERYTHING, it hit me hard.. so hard. 

That night, after the kids asleep i tried to watch a movie to chill myself a little bit and stumbled upon this one movie, TULLY. The server of the website was so slow and it’s already too late at night so I decided to watch it later.

Next day.. while the kids playing, eating, fighting like they were trying to kill themselves.. i determined to finish ‘Tully’ at one go.

Along the journey of the movie, i found myself; teary-eyed
I cried.

I finally found a movie that tells a story about my life. It feels familiar, personal and very much on the nose. It’s a dark look at motherhood which a mom like me won’t tell the world because she doesn’t want to be judge as ‘not being grateful for her kids’. This movie is pure honest and realistic in my perspective because i went through this!

When i read about the review online.. so many backlash against the main character, Marlo. People doesn’t like on how bad the movie portrays motherhood is like.. but i think they just didn’t get the message behind it or probably they didn’t went through the same shit.





There’s so many resemblance between me and Marlo:

  1. Mother of three
  2. One of the child is on the spectrum (jonah)
  3. Jonah is a picky eater and gets overwhelmed easily.
  4. Accidentally get pregnant with the 3rd child
  5. Jonah got kicked out (indirectly) from the kindergarten (in my case it’s Noah)
  6. Husband (Drew) is less than helpful, busy working and loves playing video games at home. (Adam used to be like this but Alhamdulillah, he has changed! 🥰)
  7. Breastfeeding all day err day
  8. Struggling with house chores
  9. Marlo having a Post Partum Depression
  10. Ugly realistic postpartum body
  11. The ending, touched my heart 🥰

The LAST scene of the movie shows everything on how I survived my depression and I’m thankful for that. It’s beautiful :’)
Tully is full of surprises with a great twist. Give it a go and see motherhood from my perspective. I love this movie so much.